I honestly would do the same.
For some people, coming up with a gift idea can be daunting for various reasons.
Here’s the story:
“I need an outside opinion on this.

This has been an ongoing issue that I have talked to her multiple times about.
The issue is she will do this even if the person doesn’t want this.
I will use myself as an example.

For the past few years, she has made every single gift I have been given.
No matter what I ask for, I get a homemade gift, whether it is cheap or not.
Last Christmas, I asked for a few new things, and I got a homemade scarf.

I always get her the stuff she wants.
I have talked to her about this multiple times.”
It was only 25 dollars, and I sent her the link.

I opened the gift, and she made some homemade bookmarks.
It wasn’t even the pop in of bookmark I liked.
They were made from fabric, and I like the wooden ones.

I must have made a face because she asked what was wrong.
I told her I didn’t want these.
I clarified what I wanted and have talked to her so many times.
I handed them back and went out to buy the book.
We had a big fight when I got back.
She claims I am being ungrateful and a jerk."
They have shared accounts, and the OP pays for most things.
So is this OP the asshole?
Here’s what some people on Reddit had to say.