Wedding season is nearing…and so is the drama.
Well, this bride did and it has set the internet off.
The final straw, according to the OP, was during the bridal shower.
“I arrived early to set up decorations, games, food, etc.
before the event because I wanted to check that she’d have a memorable day.
So, the OP left.
But honestly, I’m starting to feel like the asshole.
All I had to do was take the stupid nails off and let the day go smoothly.
I genuinely don’t know if I fucked up or not, or if she’s just being controlling.
So, am I the asshole?”
Everyone seems to back the OP in this situation.
Here’s what a few people said:
“Nails?
If her granny comes to the wedding is she going to have to cover up her white hair?
This girl sounds utterly exhausting.
You didn’t show up in a bridal gown, and it wasn’t even the wedding.
Is white forbidden in her presence from the day of her engagement until after the honeymoon?
u/molly_the_mezzo
“If this is her hill to die on, so be it.
She lost her mind and threw you out for press on nails.
If she cant realize she messed up, Id say stay home.
You sound like a fantastic and very thoughtful friend.
But friendship is a two-way street.
How does she take care of you?”
u/Ryuloulou
“Not the asshole.
I get not wearing a white dress but never heard of not being able to wear white nails.
She needs to get a grip and get over herself.”
u/Fun-Two-1414
“This person is NOT your friend.
She has NEVER considered you equal to her in the relationship.
She says ‘jump,’ you respond ‘how high’, and she is used to this dynamic.
She wasn’t upset at the white nails, she was upset you stood up for yourself.
Otherwise, tell her to GTFU and be an adult.
Your relationship will change but it will be better for you.”
u/AussieTopCat
“‘Oh, look everyone, do you see how pretty her nails are?
Much nicer than the brides.’
You see how ridiculous that sounds?
Your ‘friend’ is a bully.
Seriously, crying over nail colors?????”
