Couples can be on opposite ends of the spectrum regarding things like cleanliness.

I recently visited their home with my girlfriend and her folks for a week.

It is not messy as items are strewn about, or water bottles and pizza boxes litter rooms.

A woman in a sleeveless dress and a man in casual clothes are shown from behind, holding hands while walking in a bright outdoor setting

This commenter suggested everyone meet at a restaurant instead of the girlfriend’s parent’s house.

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Summary of text: The author describes a three-year long distance relationship, highlighting effective communication, family support, and the ease of meeting their girlfriend's parents

A person writes about feeling embarrassed after staying at their girlfriend’s house. They talk about issues with cleanliness in the home and feeling uncomfortable discussing it with their girlfriend

Text: Picocure - We communicate effectively, talk about your future with pragmatism. Advice on how to discuss future co-living situations and cleanliness respectfully

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Reddit post from user Icy-Understanding364 discussing their experience living with their parents. They describe challenges and comparisons with a past relationship

StickyNicki says to joke about it, make a silly joke when vacuuming, or warn parents to stay in a hotel. Says it's not an easy topic