However, OP “heard something last week which genuinely hurt me” about that time.

“My fianceesbest friendEllie also got recently engaged,“he said.

“Ellie is also very close friends with my sister.

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But my sister and my fiancee arent really friends or buddies.”

“My fiancee had joked about me crying last year and that she found that anick*.

Ellie found that very funny and then shared it with my sister,“OP revealed.

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So, OP asked his fiancee about it.

He asked the Reddit group, “AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiancee?”

“NTA (not the *sshole),u/Advanced_Passage_492wrote.

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How disloyal and disrespectful.

“NTA.

She has some unreasonable expectations about what is ‘ick’ and what men can and cannot do.

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I wouldnt dump her, but I also would not rush into marriage,“u/Odd_Task8211opined.

“This potential wife is someone that you will lean heavily on as a spouse.

“If you have kids and your boy cries, will his mother think less of him?

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If its something you believe she can overcome, then I suggest couples counselling.

If you believe shell treat future children (or future you!)

this way, then hey cancel your engagement,” the commenter continued.

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Shout out tor/AITAHandu/LifWestsfor having this discussion.

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