Some people believe in splitting the check evenly regardless of who ordered what.

Other people would rather pay for only what they ordered plus tip.

I honestly get anxious about these situations with certain friends of mine.

People at a restaurant toasting with drinks over a meal, focusing on camaraderie and dining out

Going out for lunch?

I told him that if Susan or Greg were there, I wouldn’t be able to come.

“I show up and we all get to talking.

Two women sit at a restaurant table, smiling and holding menus, suggesting a work-related lunch meeting

Everyone began putting in their orders, and most of them spent about $40.

There were only about six people there.”

“When it gets to Susan and Greg, they both order expensive dishes, around $200.

People at a restaurant table paying the bill with cash, enjoying food and drinks

Dan asked why I hadn’t ordered anything, and all I said was that I lost my appetite.

The other two friends got up as well to cancel their orders and just have drinks.

After the main courses came out, I saw Susan and Greg picking at their food.

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The waiter then brings over the check.

Greg then grabs the waiter and asks him to split the check six ways.

I stood up and corrected him, saying the check was to be split three ways.

A comment from Auntie-Mam69 reads: "NTA. I thought what you did was brilliant. You started by saying you would not attend if the leeches were there…include Susan and Greg again."

Greg looks at me confused and asks why since we ‘always’ split the bill.

(Yes, I remember the exact number.)

I swear I saw his jaw drop when he picked that receipt up.”

Reddit user Brainjacker posts about regretting not paying a bill and receiving advice from another user, Dan, to avoid similar situations

I honestly laughed because the steaks alone were more than what they had paid but in their own right.

Note: Some of this story has been edited for length and/or clarity.

So is this OP the asshole?

Reddit comment by user SheiB123 explaining why they ask for separate checks when dining out, citing others' admission of not paying. Users can upvote or reply

Here’s what some people on Reddit had to say.

This person thought the OP handled the situation the best way possible.

If anything, it sounds like Reddit thinks Dan is the asshole.

Lastly, this person shared how they usually handle this pop in of situation.