This particular shopper-customer drama all started when redditoru/Dominanttallqueenposted atext exchangewith their Instacart shopper.

The conversation escalates when the shopper notes that there are no crab cakes behind the counter.

“This is ridiculous,” they write.

Three crab cakes on a plate with salad and a wedge of lemon, one is cut showing the inside

The customer instructs them to refund them.

“I feel like you’re being a little bit rude,” they write back.

This, sir, makes you the dickhead.

Chat screenshots between a customer and delivery driver discussing a substitution for Dockside Classics Lobster Crab Cakes

Some people were also confused by the substitution of pre-made lobster cakes for fresh crab cakes.

“You were good with pre-made lobster ones, but wanted fresh crab cakes instead?

Any particular reason the same brand of crab cake wasn’t suitable??

Chat screenshots between two people discussing a delivery issue with seafood and replacement crab cakes, with visible timestamps

As for the interaction, he was a bit rude, but it was confusing overall.”

Oh, but it doesn’t stop there.

Over the past few days, the subreddit has been flooded with crab cake memes.

Text message conversation about a seafood delivery issue, discussing lobster cakes and crab cakes

It’s become inescapable.

This is a personal favorite of mine.

“I work at a grocery store; someone doing Instacart just asked for the crab cakes.

Woman shopping, examining packaged food in a grocery store freezer section

This is all I have,“u/mobmiked100wrote, sharing a photo of the infamous crab cakes.

“Look what I found at the seafood counter,“u/queenchubkinsshared in another photo.

Anyway, I’m now craving crab cakes (from the seafood counter!).

A variety of seafood including shrimp and crab displayed for sale with labeled prices

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Meme from "The Office" with Pam holding up two signs comparing frozen and seafood department crab cakes, implying no difference

a scene from Seinfeld in a grocery store with Jerry holding a photoshopped pack of crab cakes

Supermarket freezer with various seafood options including crab cakes and lobster bisque. Prices and brand names visible

Supermarket shelf stocked with packaged seafood products including the premade dockside classics crab cakes