Am I selfish for not wanting to leave the bedroom when he comes in from work?"
“But sleeping out in the living room for another few hours is uncomfortable, and I hate it.
It’s extremely brighter than our room, as our bedroom has blackout curtains.”
So what do I do in this situation??
“Am I wrong in this situation?
And if I am, how should I continue to go about it?”
This was my face after I finished reading.
“Move out,“Live_Journalist_916said.
Break up,” userRevolutionary_AD1846said.
“My guess is this selfish behavior and gaslighting isn’t limited to just the sleep situation.
If you turn off your rose-colored glasses, it probably permeates the whole relationship.”
A few people called out the tricky dynamics of a 35-year-old man dating a 24-year-old woman.
“This seems to be a pretty common theme with couples that have a ‘big’ age difference.
Tell him to go sleep on the couch or get a hammock or whatever.
Why are his needs more important than yours?”
“There’s a reason he’s 35 years of age and chose to snag a 24-year-old.
“This is your cue to leave the relationship.
He only cares about his rest,” usersharpassanarrowwrote.
I would regard that as a ME problem, though,” userFigNinja wrote.
I wouldn’t expect a partner to sleep on the couch or the floor for me.”
To be perfectly honest, that’s not the behavior of someone who cares about your well-being."
This man is a red flag.
