“I put an AirTag in her car to track where she was when she was late.”

Here’s what went down:

“Not long ago, I was engaged.

My girlfriend seemed like someone you could build a life with.

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She was beautiful, intelligent, admired, and respected by everyone who knew her.

She always had good ideas and instincts when it came to making money.”

After two years together, I proposed, and we planned to get married in Bali in 2025."

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“In March of this year, I noticed something off about her behaviour.

She started coming home 4-5 hours late, often with excuses that didn’t add up.

She had always been well-groomed, but these changes seemed excessive, like something only models and stars do.

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I felt uneasy, and the feeling wouldnt go away.”

I drove like a madman until I found her car and waited for her to return."

“After several hours, she came out of a house with a man.

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They kissed passionately as they left.

Despite my anger, I remained calm and decided to talk to her when we got home.

I let her leave first so she wouldnt see me and then headed home myself.”

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“When I got home, I found her in the kitchen making dinner.

Although I was furious during the drive, I managed to stay calm during our confrontation.

“She had started a relationship with that guy.

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Together, they used stolen credit cards to fund her ‘model’ accounts and split the profits.”

“At my insistence, she showed me her OnlyFans and other accounts.

After that, I quietly went to the couch and fell asleep.”

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I didnt tell her anything.

I pretended to be upset but passive, and she believed me.

“Now I want to ask you all: Am I the asshole in this situation?

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Should I feel guilty for contacting the police and the FBI?”

F*ck scammers of any kind.

Scammers stole all my dad’s retirement fund.

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They all deserve to rot.”

Thank you for doing the right thing.

Ex-fiancee saying you ruined her life is ruined is inconsiderate towards victims of stolen credit card info."

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u/PuddleLilacAgain

“NTA at all.

She made her bed.

Blaming you means she is taking no accountability for ripping people off (or cheating on you).

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I hope they throw the book at her.

you should probably take care of yourself now and rebuild your life without her in it.”

u/Away-Understanding34

But some think OPisthe A-hole:

“YTA.

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Sounds like she got turned out by a scammer/Romeo pimp and you called the FBI on her.”

u/nooksorcrannies

“Snitching is never right.

YTA for snitching.”

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u/LowRazzmatazz666

And then there are others who think that everybody sucks here:

“ESH.

‘We had a nice perfect relationship she was the love of my life.

So I put an Apple AirTag on her car.’

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Neither of you are sane people, although I guess she’s worse since she’s a criminal.

But clearly the crime was mostly led by the guy.

u/theringsofthedragon

“ESH is my take.

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She sucks way, way more, but OP sucks for being a stalker.”

u/Oakfrontdoor

My take?

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