“I dont understand how or why she would do that to me.”
The situation led to a friend-breakup, and now the woman wonders if she’s in the wrong.
We made concrete plans and I was excited.
Ive been a Swiftie for years but haven’t seen her live.
I booked the hotel."
Weve been friends for years and I love spending time with her.
I didnt know how to react.
She stood in front of me and Venmod my payment back."
“She was like ‘I know you understand.’
“I was like yes, they are your tickets.
Legally, you’ve got the option to do whatever you want.
She just kind of shrugged and said ‘Sorry, but I figured youd understand.'”
I said I needed to process this and that Im really disappointed with her and how shes treated me.
This is a girl who I consoled through breakups, job losses, pet losses, etc.
She looked shocked and asked if I was serious.”
I was looking forward to this so much.
I checked the resale sites and had a sad little cry about it.
I am wondering if I am completely wrong to have just uninvited her.
Is that too far?
If it was in, say, a month or two, I dont think I would have.
I just need time?"
And it seems like other Redditors did, too.
She agreed to buy a ticket on your behalf with the understanding that you were paying for it.
Thats how groups of people buy tickets if they expect to sit together.
It was your ticket.
It wasnt hers to give away," they commented.
Someone else,u/wrenwynn, weighed in with a similar sentiment.
“The instant you paid for it, it was YOUR ticket.
The fact that it was under her name means diddly squat once money changed hands.”
“Take her to small claims court for the cost of a replacement ticket,” they commented.
“She paid for the ticket with the understanding that you pay her back.
Hundreds of thousands of groups are getting tickets using this method to score tickets and seating together.
