“I don’t make his doctor’s appointments.

He’s not making mine.”

With today’s generation, many couples are moving further away from traditional gender roles in marriage.

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Some women now work full-time, and the man is the stay-at-home dad.

Nowadays, anything that works for a couple goes!

Paige continues her TikTok by listing the other chores she doesn’t do for her husband.

A woman sitting, talking on video with text overlay: "A list of things I don't do for my husband." Captions read: "a few weeks ago I said I don’t do my husband’s laundry."

“I don’t make his doctor’s appointments because, guess what?

He’s not making mine.

Would it be kind of me to do that?

Woman in black top responding to a comment in a video. The comment above reads: "what you're essentially saying is never do any acts of kindness for your partner…" Subtitles read: "just add up to work at the end of the day."

Is it my job?

While others disagreed and shared their views on the subject.

However, if you might, Paige recommends having these hard conversations before marriage and especially before having kids.

A woman is speaking earnestly in a video. The text on the image summarizes: "In healthy relationships, kindness should be given without expectations."

“I also found books on this topic very helpful.

I have readFair Play,This is How Your Marriage Ends,Emotional Labor, andFed Up.

All these books helped my husband and I communicate better and learn more about navigating this.

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A comment by "that's entertainment" reads, "the idea of making a Doctors appointment for another adult is truly mind blowing to me. how would I know when someone else needs to see a doctor? ?" with 5263 likes

Brooke Jones says she is a stay-at-home wife and happy with her marriage; her husband helps when she feels overwhelmed

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A person is standing in a kitchen, holding two young children who appear to be sleepy. A popcorn bucket is on the counter behind them

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