“The test results showed that I’m not the mother but my husband is still the father.”

“I had always wanted to be a mum.

“I still had my ovaries so we started looking into cost of a surrogate.

A woman with hands forming a triangle over her forehead, appearing animated. She is wearing earrings and is in mid-sentence. Image from Internet Finds article

It is really expensive!

(I was the primary breadwinner).”

I was grateful to have someone helping us have a child.”

Matthew Perry and Courteney Cox sitting on a couch, engaged in conversation. Courteney holds a magazine. Both appear to be in a relaxed setting

(He’s B+, I’m A+, husband is O+).

I have been breaking down into crying spells over and over again about this.

I admit I left our son with him."

Courteney Cox, Matthew Perry, Lisa Kudrow, and an unidentified actor in a hospital scene from the TV show Friends. Cox and Perry stand beside Kudrow, who is in a hospital bed

“I am now filing divorce because he cheated and betrayed me in the worst possible way.

They said it isn’t blood that makes a family.

I just want a clean break and a fresh start.

David Schwimmer and Jennifer Aniston sitting at a table, with Schwimmer looking at Aniston, from a scene in the TV show "Friends."

I’m also looking at relocating several states away.”

Did you form a contract for the surrogacy?

Because you could sue them for a scam!

Steve Harvey wearing a suit and tie, looking puzzled during an interview

Also, for emotional damage I think your parents aren’t thinking about YOU and your well being."

I would speak to a solicitor about suing her for your money back.

u/chez2202

“He cheated…

Jennifer Lawrence with a shocked expression, wearing a headband and earrings

It’s not yours.

I will absolutely tell you what I tell men posting this.

NTA… and I glad to see most of the replies so far agree.

Homer Simpson facepalming at a kitchen table with a purple wall, window, and stove in the background

I hope we keep this energy up for anyone put in this spot from now on.”

u/Odd_Welcome7940

And then there are some who think OP is the A-hole:

“YTA.

This child knows nothing about genes, only that you’ve been his mother.

Jennifer Aniston and David Schwimmer are sitting on a couch, reviewing documents together in a living room

It sucks that your husband and friend betrayed you in this way.

Abandoning this child is cruel to him when he’s done nothing wrong.”

u/therandolorian

“Daaaang it took a while to see YTA.

SpongeBob SquarePants stands with a skeptical expression, wearing his usual white shirt, red tie, brown shorts, and a hat with an anchor symbol

Also how could you not be attached to your two-year-old?”

u/hpalatini

Note: All submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.

Leona Lewis wearing a puffy-sleeved top looks unimpressed while seated on NBC's Songland show

Simon Cowell reacting with a surprised expression while seated at the America's Got Talent judges' table with an audience in the background. Labels: #AGT and NBC