and OMG, her story is awildride.
“I work [in] real estate, and he works at a shipyard.
We both collectively work around 50 to 60-hour weeks.

We have four kids: 13-year-old twins, [a] 12-year-old, and [an] 8-month-old.
My husband has every weekend off.
I do not.”

[My] husband was on his ass on the couch watching YouTube.
Kids [were] off playing video games.
Baby in her walker."

I was super tired today.'"
“[They were] asking me to kindly grab them something from Applebee’s.
(It’s our favorite restaurant.)

I said ‘absolutely not’ and hung up the phone.”
My husband and kids are still pissed at me.
Am I the asshole?"

[You’re] not the asshole, and good for you."
Saysu/JustehGirl, “[They] seriously sound like toddlers.
Ask them to do [or] not do something and they’ll ignore you.

The second you stand up, they fix their behavior.
It’s understandable when they’re little.”
“Here’s my take,” saysu/mrsedge2009.
HOWEVER: he put the call on speaker and allowed the older children to lay into you???
In what world is that okay?"
“Hes basically the oldest child while she is the only parent.”
Fromu/ZalutPats: “Weaponized incompetence alert.”
Nope, not until it directly affected them, only then they were suddenly ‘sorry.'"