It only proves there are two sides to the coin, and everyone’s sexual experiences are different.
“Our first threesome actually saved our relationship.
We pleased that girl like it was our job as a team.
It brought us back together, and we have done it a few more times since.
We basically like working together to make someone cum as hard as possible.
We’ve had another man as well, and that was the first time she let me try anal.
To this day the only time I get ass is if her pussy is full.
u/HeroOfHearts
2.
We didn’t ask anyone we knew or were really familiar with.
I had followed this girl on IG (she was from high school never talked to her at all.
Only a few ‘hellos’ and that was it).
I asked her how she felt about having a threesome with us, and she agreed.
The threesome ended up happening.
Overall it was a good experience for all of us, but it’s mostly managing their emotions.
u/UnableFalcon6471
3.
But that doesnt mean she is automatically more sexually compatible with him.
u/CreatedfortheNJCutie
4.
“I used to be the third for a couple about 10 years ago.
Was it a good idea?
Depends on who you ask.
The husband apparently had a sexual awakening and eventually identified as gay.
I’ve always had mixed feelings about it.”
thesettledpirate
5.
“I had a threesome with my ex and a good friend of his.
They didnt interact with each other and focused entirely on me.
I felt really awkward and weird for a long time afterward when wed see his friend.
Although at the time it was definitely hot, I wouldnt do it again.”
lunallee212
6.
Im straight, shes not.
“Talk about this with each other.
When you think youve covered everything there is to cover, talk more.
Figure out what your hard limits are (as in, ask each other about various scenarios and situations.
The things that are intimate between the two of you are intimate because of your relationship.
Kissing another woman/dude wasn’t intimate in this context for us.
Before you go down this path, learn to put your partner first.
But the truth was just that there was some ambiguity and confusion.
Your partner has your best interests at heart, and isnt trying to do anything to hurt you.
It should be something you are both excited to experience together.
Its supposed to enhance your relationship, not destroy it.”
u/shadowpornacct
7.
“I had a threesome with my ex-girlfriend and another girl.
I focused mainly on my ex with lots and lots of reassurance before, during, and after.
I wasn’t involved really in the first part of it, either, so I think that helped.
u/whoknowswhatspice
8.
Its definitely an interesting feeling when youre watching them go at it.
u/mikess314
9.
“I had a threesome with my female partner and another woman, and I was miserable.
The cliff notes version is I didn’t like her friend.
Her friend was okay looking but not so bright.
I only agreed because I was 17 and horny.”
u/LimpAd5888
10.
But weve also had some with single women, and thats been fine, too.
“The most important thing is that your relationship needs to be rock-solid first.
Bringing other people into your sex life amplifies everything.
If your relationship is good, it can make everything even better.
If there are any cracks, though, they can be amplified and make everything worse.
Sex with others is not a replacement for bad sex in your relationship.
It can be an enhancement, though, to a good sex life.
The real crux of this is confidence that you still feel like you’re your partners favorite.
u/mr_mcclane
11.
“Threesomes aren’t worth it for most couples.
It was my girlfriend’s idea.
She went down on me, then went down on my girlfriend.
I go down on her from behind while shes going down on my girlfriend.
Then my girlfriend tells me to fuck her.
I look her in the face to verify she means it.
She does and then starts passionately kissing the woman.”
It was a fantasy.
Fast forward, my girlfriend mentions me fucking this other woman multiple times as our relationship continues.
Clearly, it bothered her, and she didnt feel about it how she expected to beforehand.
It isn’t the reason why our relationship ended, but it did change it.”
u/eyelikeroundthings
12.
“Ive done a lot of threesomes and had group sex when I was in a relationship.
Without fail, the secret to successful group sex is communication.
The couple is equally enthusiastic about it; everyone agrees on soft and hard limits.”
Then, we reconnected and talked about the experience.
We showered together and were physically and emotionally intimate.
We shared our vulnerabilities about the threesome with each other.”
u/JTOtown
13.
“We’ve been in an open relationship for five years.
I don’t think our relationship would survive without the occasional three or foursome.
We date separately as well.
The key is communication.”
u/kheroth
14.
“We sort of stumbled into one with her best friend at the time.
Was not planned at all, but we went with it.
We didnt know what was really going on and what ‘rules’ there were.
For the most part it was her watching me and my wife.
We left that night sort of speechless, honestly.
We talked about it a little and sort of said, ‘WTF just happened?’
Guess we sort of swept it under the rug after that.
We’ve been happily married for four years and counting.”
u/JesusMakesMeLaugh
15.
“The threesome was easy we just looked a bunch of stuff up.
Despite the general consensus, threesomes don’t destroy relationships.
What destroys them is people entering those situations half-cocked.
u/waythrow13579
16.
“Having a threesome was part of us opening our relationship.
We went about very carefully and took a break to discuss and reflect every step of the way.
The threesome was fun and the first of many.
We were all into each other and communicated beforehand what we are.
As for MMF, I do not participate in those.
u/umlaute
17.And finally, “The way we survived it was by taking it slooooooow.
I waited two full years from the first time she suggested it to actually do it.
If you try it, don’t worry your first experience might be a little choppy.
Pleasing two women isn’t as easy as it sounds.
u/talentsmart
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