“He showed up at my work uninvited and hid around a corner.

Then he texted me that I looked great in my sweater.”

Warning: This post discusses sexual harassment.

guy hiding behind a tree and spying on people

And the worst part?

Most of these men like to wax poetic about what “nice guys” they are.

I knew that theresponseswere going to sadly be all too relatable.

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He was ‘mad at himself’ that he was jealous, and ‘had to punish himself.'"

u/mrsissippi

2. u/Ms_Evey

3.

“He showed up at my work uninvited and hid around a corner.

guy on the phone in the shadows

Then he texted me that I looked great in my sweater.”

u/TheActualSammych

4.

“He said he was feeling lonely and asked for a hug.

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I don’t think I’ve ever backed away from anyone else that fast.”

u/KikiChrome

5.

“I caught him sneakily recording a video of me without my consent during a pool party.

woman on her phone as a person in a hoodie in the shadows stays behind her

u/Particular-Natural12

6.

Uhhhh, No the f*ck we can’t, my dude.”

u/nikkismith182

7.

“He tried to kiss me while we were hanging out one-on-one becausehis fianceewas sick and couldnt make it.

Then accused me of leading him on by hanging out one-on-one.”

u/riseandrise

8.

“In high school a friend was sent away for behavior/mental health issues for a few months.

Never spoke again.”

u/wgkt

9.

“He called my parents’ house phone.

I never gave him that number.

I didnt even know the number.”

u/daddydarkskin

10. u/startingagain2480

11.

“He waited for me on my kids' trampoline in our yard when I wasnt home.

I assumed hed walk home, but he didnt!

u/ghastlyglittering

12. u/horizonhunter97

13.

“I was out to dinner with him and my husband.

u/canofelephants

14.

“He told me he loved me and tried to kiss me after his brother started flirting with me.

I’d known him forever, told him everything like you would a female friend.

There was never even a hint that he liked me.”

u/catz_eyes

15.

I found out no one was going for food but me and him because he made it up.

Never called my dad to come pick me up so fast.”

Rough_Vacation_1067

16. u/violentmoreviolent

17.And finally, “I had a ‘nice guy’ roommate at one point.

He was always polite and cordial.

My cat was ill, and spent a majority of the time in my room.

That was fun.”

u/MSMIT0

Note: Responses have been edited for length/clarity.