“As an adult now, it’s a trait I really value in my friends.
If your friend doesn’t do this, then they don’t have your back at all.”
So, here are some signs that someoneisn’ta girl’s girl:
1.
“Women who say, ‘I just get along better with guys.’
That puts down all women and basically half of the population.
It screams, ‘I always have to be the center of attention.’
I cannot stand that anti-feminist, sexist bullshit.”
“When they don’t respect your privacy or trust.
I once had a friend who’d tell my secrets to her other friend group.
Be careful with who you’re vulnerable with.”
Eden, 19, United States
3.
That’s very telling to me."
alexandrak17
5.
“I’ve had this issue so many times before.
I can tell someone isn’t a girl’s girl if they always discount my successes.
And when I asked her to be my Maid of Honor?
I wish I were joking.
She’s now someone I have no communication with.”
That is DEFINITELY not a girl’s girl."
katiejade
7.
“Anyone who pits themselves against the mother of their partner’s children.
“If they ghost you or someone else without any remorse, regret, or explanation.
I’ve had this happen to me three or four times.
Though I won’t have closure, I’m slowly getting over it.
Lesson to take away: Don’t ghost someone; use your words and communicate.”
Anonymous, 17
9.
When I was in high school, there was a girl I was in choir with.
She was more of a friend of a friend, but we always got along well.
As an adult now, it’s a trait I really value in my friends.
sayhellotojenn
11.
“When a woman refuses women’s right to choose.
Why women would force something on another woman and her body is beyond me.”
Anonymous
13.
“I’ve always felt cautious around women who demand unwavering loyalty.
For instance, I hung out in a large (and fun!)
friend group when I was younger.
Occasionally, a pair would sleep together, but it wouldn’t end well.
Now that I’m older, I attempt to avoid getting close to women like that.”
“Publicly defending their (in this case, male) partner’s violent threats toward others.”
psychicsealion588
15.
“When a girl dates your exes.
I had a friend I used to confide in about almost everything especially my ex.
A few years later, she asked me if it was okay to date my ex.
It seemed weird, but I went along with it since I was in another relationship then.
“Women who criticize another woman’s appearance after she received tons of compliments.
Like, why are you trying to debate whether a woman looks good or not?
It just comes off as jealousy.”
annechananne
17.
“Women who say, ‘This is why I’m only friends with guys.’
I hate that shit.”
jillian57
19.
She would sleep with them immediately and then toss them aside.
I don’t know why I stayed friends with her for so long.”
