I immediately realized that I would not continue with him."
He kept it to himself, though, until we were married, so that was great."
u/Emma_N85
3.

“I was told that my cats needed to be trained and disciplined.
My ex told me out of the blue that I am ‘not extraordinarily talented but just a foreigner.’
u/meltilen
5.

He also said that I’m delusional to think that he’d come visit me.
I said, ‘Um, no, they are actual children!’
And he doubled down.

“He literally just hated them for no reason.
u/babblepedia
7.
“My ex was scrolling through Instagram, and his feed was mostly short, blonde, fitness girls.

Im tall, brunette, and curvy.
I jokingly said, ‘Damn, Im really not your bang out,’ and he just laughed.
The silence was painfully loud.”

“He told me, ‘The reason I like you is because you remind me of her.’
We had been together for 15 years at that point.
Spoiler, it didnt last much longer.”

u/MonkeyGumbootEsquire
9.
This was after I reminded him to keep up with good hygiene, like brushing his teeth.
Was there any reason to get super aggressive like that?!”

I broke up with her shortly thereafter.”
u/grababook27
11.
“I had a mark on my nose that the doctor thought might be skin cancer.

I was booked for a hospital appointment to have it removed and a biopsy.
I ended it a few months later, after seven years of much stress and sadness.”
“He told me that he wouldnt be in a relationship with me if he cared about looks.

Many times throughout our relationship, he would remind me that I’m, in fact, not beautiful.
Going out of his way to prove that to me.
I will never accept that from anyone ever again.”

u/antisocial_moth2
13.
My heart broke that day."
u/Lopsided_Tackle_9015
15.
“These words still ring loud in my head: Never overestimate your position in my life.
He apologized, but my feelings for him completely died.”
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