Welcome to another situation fromReddit’s r/AmItheAssholesubreddit where people ask if they are jerks for their behavior.

He loves her, though, so we support him.

We have known for months this was a New Year’s Eve wedding.

A wedding invitation

I RSVP’d ‘yes’ months ago with my wife."

OK, so far so good, right?!

Well, apparently the OP didn’t realize it was going to be a DRY wedding.

An outdoor wedding gathering with "No alcohol xxx" written over the photo

He then stated that she was “pissed” that there wouldn’t be alcohol.

“I texted the groom buddy and asked.

I told him, ‘This is something you should have told us a long time ago.’

An RSVP invitation with "Regretfully declines" checked

I told him that my wife and I wouldn’t be going.

We want to spend the night drinking.”

And what does not liking the bride have to do with it?

Many hands holding cellphones with "chat bubbles" around each phone

I went to a New Year’s Eve wedding a few years ago.

They asked everyone to stay sober until the reception, including arriving sober to the ceremony.

We love our friends, so we were all fine with their request.

A big group of people walking away

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A stunned man looking at his phone

A man licking a row of drinks at a bar

A very drunk person lying on a couch with potato chips all over their T-shirt, breadsticks emerging form their nostrils, and a "Poke Me" sign on their chest